It’s Okay if You Didn’t Shave…… Really
Let’s face it, getting a massage takes a lot of vulnerability. You are letting your therapist see parts of your body that you don’t allow most people to see. Your stretch marks, scars, cellulite, and birthmarks are exposed and you’re trusting me to respect your boundaries and treat you with the utmost honor and respect.
While some people have an unlimited supply of self-confidence that allows them to feel comfortable in most any situation, some put themselves under a microscope critiquing every inch of their body. We often forget that each mark is a memory or a lesson. Your stretch marks may mark an incredible journey of the time you welcomed a child into the world, the time you chose a healthier lifestyle and released extra pounds you had, or the time that you decided to enjoy life and be happy with who you were instead of obsessively counting calories or limiting yourself. Your scars may be from an accident that taught you how precious life was, or the time you refused to listen to your mom when you were 5 and learned a valuable life lesson. Your cellulite shows that your skin isn’t absolutely perfect, just like all those people using photo shop and filters to fool the world. Your birthmarks show you live, that you are uniquely made and there is no other like you. But there’s another common concern a lot of clients have, particularly women.
Picture this: You’ve been waiting for this day for quite some time…an hour of relaxation away from the stress of daily life. Nothing can stop your excitement. You are finally taking time for you and putting yourself first, even if just for an hour. You rush into your appointment. Traffic was bad, and while you planned to be early, life happened and early didn’t. You greet your therapist, catch up for a minute, then begin to get ready for the hour you look forward to each month. You’re getting ready to get on the table when you suddenly realize you forgot to shave this morning. You had so much on your mind getting the kids ready while they’re fighting like it’s their day job, rushing to get dinner in the crockpot before heading out the door, and thinking of all the things you had to do today. You search everywhere for a quick solution as if you would find a razor paired with shaving cream and a nice tub. You panic. What will my therapist think? Your mind races…”I always make sure I’m massage ready. Maybe I should cancel so they don’t think I’m barbaric. I’m a walking hazard ready to prick at the first touch. Is it too late to reschedule? Great, now the whole massage I’m going to have to make jokes about how I was aiming to help them exfoliate with my leg hair, or how I made a movement called no shave January. What will they think of me?”
Now while this scenario may be very extreme, let’s face it, some of you at some point have been in this boat. But I want to tell you a little secret…I, as your Massage Therapist, don’t care if you shaved or not! I know you live a busy life and have more to worry about than making sure you shave right before your appointment. I know that realistically you’re lucky if you have time to shave, and that your time is limited and precious. When I massage you, I’m not thinking about how horrible of a person you are because you failed to shave (or choose not to shave), I’m thinking about the body on my table and how I can best make it feel amazing. I’m thinking about how your shoulders are more tense than normal, or that you’re favoring one arm over the other. Your hair is the last thing on my mind. Unless we are cupping (which we should be ::wink wink:: in which case I’m just thinking about how adjust the amount of oil we will need). Don’t allow your fear of my opinion about your leg hair take away from that special time you take for yourself. Heck, passing gas is a totally normal thing while on the massage table! Everyone has hair and we all pass gas. I’m a Massage Therapist because I love the human body and the people who live inside of them. That means taking care of all it, hair, toots, and all! I know that you live, and you not shaving shows that you give so much of yourself for everyone else that you don’t take much time for yourself. Plus, a lot of massage clients have hairy legs, arms, and backs. If that doesn’t bother your me as your Massage Therapist, your prickly legs sure won’t either. I promise!
Kick back, relax, and enjoy your massage. Let me take care of you. This is your time! Enjoy it!